S3.Ep.45. The Dating Down Pattern

Welcome back lovers! 

Dating Down one of the BIG patterns that keeps us from really having the relational dream in our hearts. 

If you've played this one out, or have had it played out with you, you're going to want to get this one in your system. 

Join me for a conversation on one of my favourite (aka I've played this one out so many times) patterns

In this episode: 

 

• The difference between dating down and creating a partnership (2:22)

• Bringing emotional and relational maturity to the table (3:52)

• Slippery attempts at molding someone into what we want them to be (6:49)

• The underbelly of being a 'launchpad' and claiming credit for another's transformation (13:08)

• The impact of forcing someone to play catch up in a relationship (22:57)

• The intimacy issues behind a dating down pattern and choosing relationships in which we can stay safe, guarded and closed (29:45)

• What a mutually met partnership will ask of you (30:17)

• What it takes to really trust your discernment (33:36)

• The impact on your creativity, purpose and mission when you date down (35:21)

• How a mutually met relationship can be a generator of energy and fuel for our cosmic mission (36:51)

• Un-shaming, opening our hearts and being brave enough to create the relationship of our dreams (41:10)


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Podcast Intro Music:

Song Title: Shape Your Future

Written By

Dan Phillipson

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