The Embodied Love Podcast

DAY 1: WTF Is Embodied Dating?!

Welcome back friends! Thought I would kick us back off with a BANG! A 3 part series on Embodied Dating to lead us into the next Embodied Dating Workshop this weekend.Today's episode is one of three that will be released in a mini podcast series, with the second episode dropping tomorrow and the final episode on Friday, just in time for our workshop on Saturday. We will be opening a discussion forum over in The Love Club for those who wish to digest this episode (and the other two episodes) further. You can join for free HEREEmbodied Dating Workshop: Where Are The Good Ones and How Can I Find One?If you're coming to the workshop this weekend you can register your spot HERE
Show Notes: 
• What even is embodiment?! Why are we so often disembodied? (6:49)
• The difference between listening to the signals of the body vs dating from the neck up! (8:50)
• How being in right relationship to your body, emotions and energy during the dating phase mean you can slow down and trust in the natural unfolding (11:30)
• What our bandwidth for bullshit can teach us (24:08)
• Cracking the code of the universal algorithm! (32:56) 
• How to get out of the toxic pool of dating, open up the portal to extraordinary aligned humans, and call in the people who are making a difference on this planet! (41:10)
 
Podcast Intro Music
Written ByDean William Palya, Jr.
Performed ByPALA
Produced ByPALA

S3.Ep.47. Improving Your Relationships with Creativity

In this episode we explore the relationship with your creative energy and how being in touch with this creative force is deeply in service to the health and vitality of your relationships.Listen in for:
 
• How fulfillment, inspiration and variety can keep a relationship from crumbling under pressure (15:06)
 
• What happens when we forget our multifaceted nature (16:47)
 
• The cost of investing energy into places, people and projects that are a suck hole for your soul! (17:30)
• The importance of being inquisitive and the link to fulfillment and embodied richness. (18:30 )
• Repairing our energy leaks and investing in reciprocal creativity (21:05)
 
• Working with the natural swells and lulls of the creative and relational experience (24:13)Work With MeIf you're ready to dive deeper into this work and you would like to join the waitlist for the Dating for Partnership Program, The Dating Mastermind or the next dating workshop join my email list HERE1-1 Mentorship + Couples Work
This year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. Explore this option and apply to claim your spot  HERE
If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE
Podcast Intro Music
Written By
Dean William Palya, Jr.
Performed By
PALA
Produced By
PALA
 

S3.Ep46. Dating + The Deep Creep

Welcome back lovers! Let's be honest, we all love a good deep creep now and again. Whether we're creeping on our new lover, a crush or a former flame...we're curious beings. We love looking for hidden treasure amiright?! Here's the deal though, too much of anything is going to turn sideways. And the deep creep DEFINITELY falls into this category. We do need to get this pattern into a non-destructive range if we're interested in dating for partnership and really being present and vetting properly. Join me for a conversation on one of my favourite but not too favourite pastimes ;) In this episode: 
• The ins and outs of deep creeping on the socials during the dating phase 
• What deep creeping *can* be good for• What the deep creep allows us to avoid and tolerate• The big red flag that impact the health of a future relationship that we often miss when we're balls deep in a fantasy, deep creep spiral. • Fantasy, deep creepin and avoiding reality oh my! Join us for the Embodied Dating Workshop HEREIncludes a 30 day replay access and a bonus live Q/A segment. Choose your own adventure pricing ;) 
Podcast Intro Music:Song Title: Shape Your Future
Written By
Dan Phillipson
Follow Kelsey on:Instagram: @radicalselfloveTiktok: @radicalselfloveTwitter: @radselflove

S3.Ep.45. The Dating Down Pattern

Welcome back lovers! Dating Down one of the BIG patterns that keeps us from really having the relational dream in our hearts. If you've played this one out, or have had it played out with you, you're going to want to get this one in your system. Join me for a conversation on one of my favourite (aka I've played this one out so many times) patternsIn this episode: 
 
• The difference between dating down and creating a partnership (2:22)
• Bringing emotional and relational maturity to the table (3:52)
• Slippery attempts at molding someone into what we want them to be (6:49)• The underbelly of being a 'launchpad' and claiming credit for another's transformation (13:08)• The impact of forcing someone to play catch up in a relationship (22:57)
• The intimacy issues behind a dating down pattern and choosing relationships in which we can stay safe, guarded and closed (29:45)• What a mutually met partnership will ask of you (30:17)• What it takes to really trust your discernment (33:36)• The impact on your creativity, purpose and mission when you date down (35:21)
• How a mutually met relationship can be a generator of energy and fuel for our cosmic mission (36:51)
• Un-shaming, opening our hearts and being brave enough to create the relationship of our dreams (41:10)Join us for the Embodied Dating Workshop HEREIncludes a 30 day replay access and a bonus live Q/A segment. Choose your own adventure pricing ;) 
REVERENCE: Art of Emotional Alchemy + Introductions to Relational Mastery.REVERENCE is the foundational program to this path work and is a prerequisite for all upper level work with me.It’s a minimum 9 month container and includes group mentorship, a curated curriculum and access to all live EMERGENCE series classes. 
This container is appropriate for all levels. Currently enrolling for Feb cohort (7 spaces remain)Join us HERE
Podcast Intro Music:Song Title: Shape Your Future
Written By
Dan Phillipson
Follow Kelsey on:Instagram: @radicalselfloveTiktok: @radicalselfloveTwitter: @radselflove

S3.Ep.44. Dating Non-Negotiables + The Consequences of Compromising On Them

Welcome back lovers. Here we go on another relational ride. In this episode I dive into the importance of upholding and backing your non-negotiables and must haves in the dating phase, the consequences of compromising this (or avoiding it all together) and the main areas you need to align on to proceed in the dating/vetting process. In this episode: 
The importance of foundational non negotiables (2:43)
When wounds do the choosing (8:30)
Things to flush out on date 1 (9:26)
Facing the fear of truth telling and understanding the sacred purpose of rejection (16:02)
The energetic consequences of compromising our truth (20:30)
Being grounded and rooted in reality and talking about the shit that really matters (32:35)
Ready to take your dating to the next embodied level? Join the waitlist HERE(registration opens Feb 11th)
Pumped about The Love Club?Join my email list HERE to receive your invite. Looking for More Options to Work With Me?
1-1 Mentorship + Couples Work
This year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. Explore this option and apply to claim your spot  HERE
If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE
REVERENCE: Art of Emotional Alchemy + Introductions to Relational Mastery.REVERENCE is the foundational program to this path work and is a prerequisite for all upper level work with me.It’s a minimum 9 month container and includes group mentorship, a curated curriculum and access to all live EMERGENCE series classes. 
This container is appropriate for all levels. Currently enrolling for Feb cohort (7 spaces remain)Join us HERE
Podcast Intro Music:Song Title: Shape Your Future
Written By
Dan Phillipson
 

S3.Ep 43. Season 3 Kick Off: Trust Falls With The Universe and Creating a Life on Purpose

Welcome to Season 3! As you can likely tell, things have changed in these last few weeks since we wrapped season 2. I'm a 3/5 Manifesting Generator and keeping things fresh, true and aligned is KEY for me to keep pouring into a creative project. In this episode we explore more PERMISSION for flowing with YOUR creative current. In this episode of The Embodied Love Podcast: • The courage to change things up, be lead by the deeper inner knowing and having deep faith in your path (5:19)• Necessary trust falls with the universe (6:10)
• Creating new possibilities in our relationships within our bold communication and conscious communication (11:14)
• Letting go of control and opening up to the infinite realm of possibility (20:12)
• The cause of rotten peach energy! -sitting in containers we have outgrown (24:23)
• How to interview and date with alignment (and a little audacity!) (33:33)
• The energetic of force vs the energetic of trust (46:34)
• How to work your business rather than be worked by it. (51:25)
Work With Me in 2023
1-1 Mentorship + Couples Work
This year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. Explore this option and apply to claim your spot  HERE
If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE
REVERENCE: Art of Emotional Alchemy + Introductions to Relational Mastery. REVERENCE is the foundational program to this path work and is a prerequisite for all upper level work with me. It’s a minimum 9 month container and includes group mentorship, a curated curriculum and access to all live EMERGENCE series classes. 
This container is appropriate for all levels. Currently enrolling for Feb cohort (7 spaces remain)Join us HERE
Want in on the dating workshop? Join the waitlist HEREPumped about The Love Club? Join my email list HERE to receive your invite. 
Podcast Intro Music:Song Title: Shape Your Future
Written By
Dan Phillipson
 

S2.Ep.42. The Magic Behind The Music- an Exclusive Look Behind The Music I Make

2022 has been a wild ride, one filled with plenty of ups and downs (listen to episode 40 HERE for all the details on that one). But one of the most special aspects of this year was finally seeing how the world of my music/singing is merging with the relational mastery work I teach in the world. To see these two HUGE parts of me beginning to intersect is such a beautiful and exciting thing...only took me 40 years but here we are doing it! In this episode I give you an exclusive behind the scenes breakdown of what the song Always Love You is about, the deeper relational threads at play and the medicinal transmission we've coded into the final track. If you love music and you love relational mastery work, this is an episode made for you. Want to Support The Music Further? We would love that! Here are a few ways you can support our music: 1. Listen to the song on Spotify (or any other streaming service) HERE or catch the lyric video on Youtube HERE2. Share the song with your social media or with someone who you think it would resonate with. 3. Create your own Spotify playlist (10-15 songs) of tunes you love and add Always Love You to the playlist. 4. Share with me on social media what the song means to you, how you felt when you listened to it, what the song leaves you with!! 5. Support the music + our music journey directly by joining our new Patreon community HERE
Work With Me in 2023
 
In the new year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. If you would like to check out that option and apply for a 2023 spot you can do so HERE
 
If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE
 
If group work is more within your range for 2023 hop on the waitlist for REVERENCE: The Art of Emotional Alchemy and Introductions to Relational Mastery HERE (all waitlist people will receive a special early bird rate next week before I officially open the doors for registration). 
 
Podcast Intro Music
Written By
Dean William Palya, Jr.
Performed By
PALA
Produced By
PALA

S2.Ep.41 Navigating the Holidays When They’re Not Merry and Bright

Welcome to the second last episode of season 2 friends! In this episode we explore navigating the holidays when if it's a tough time for you. The holidays aren't always merry, bright and full of jolly cheer. They can be a hard time of year. Loneliness, memories of loss, longer darker days or any other reason, can make this season a tough one for some folks. If you've struggled over the holidays or notice you slip into numbing out coping patterns during this season this is a little love letter to your heart from mine. We cover:
• Dealing with big emotions over the holidays• When the mind dominates the emotions vs getting in approval of your emotions• Numbing out over the holidays, why it happens and how to navigate it with awareness and intentionality and NO SHAMING. • How to set up important conversations from a place of reverence• The importance of becoming a compassionate witness to your experience over the holidays. Work With Me in 2023In the new year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. If you would like to check out that option and apply for a 2023 spot you can do so HEREIf you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HEREIf group work is more within your range for 2023 hop on the waitlist for REVERENCE: The Art of Emotional Alchemy and Introductions to Relational Mastery HERE (all waitlist people will receive a special early bird rate next week before I officially open the doors for registration). 
Podcast Intro MusicWritten By
Dean William Palya, Jr.
Performed By
PALA
Produced By
PALA

S2.Ep.40. Ego Desires vs True Desire

Welcome back lovers! In this episode I do a deep dive into the world of egoic desires and true desires. I share with you the fullness of this past year and many of the big challenges I had to find a way through including an unexpected cancer diagnosis in my family, an unexpected injury and learning how to walk again. I also share the BIG expansion moments of this year (big magical things happening with music and the final pieces of my new body of work) and how every twist and turn of this year has invited me to explore a more nuanced path of alchemy, finding my true pace and connecting to the threads of the deepest, truest desires. It's a rich rich episode. We also dive into:• What is emotional and energetic range.• Honouring our range in our day to day- how well are we listening to our signals, needs and what is really true?• The role embodiment plays when it comes to staying within range.• Destigmitizing the emotional world • What it takes to be with life no matter what life throws your way.• When the ego picks up the spiritual lingo and leads you astray lol• Getting cockblocked by the universe and the blessing of it• Right relationship with reality.• The three main pillars of my body of work 
 
Ready to Dive Deeper? 
 
Join the REVERENCE Waitlist HERE Podcast Intro MusicWritten By
Dean William Palya, Jr.
Performed By
PALA
Produced By
PALA

S2.Ep.39 Moving At The Pace of Slow + Healing Update

Hi loves! It's been so long since we've connected here and I'm stoked to be back! In this episode I give you a behind the scenes look at the deep initiation portals that my injury has taken me on (the main reason behind the hiatus) and the medicine of moving at the pace of slow. Slowing down in a world obsessed with faster is a wild act of rebellion, it's also necessary for our embodiment and ability to relate in nourishing and connective ways. It's been a deeply powerful few months opening and unwinding as I navigate healing my injury and anchoring in a new decade full of these mystical lessons. Enjoy! BLACK FRIDAY SALE STARTS TODAYAs mentioned on the episode today is the kick off of my first ever Black Friday Sale. Nov 25th-27th all of my self-study programs are 50% off. To get in on the sale head over HERE and use the code: BLACKFRIDAYLOVEIn addition to this mega sale I'll be posting a special 24hr deal Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday for those of you interested in more of the live pathway work with me. To receive those deals either hop on my email list HERE or keep a close eye on my Instagram stories each of those days! Lots of love,Kels